Tuesday, November 12, 2019
5 ways to finally get started on that big project this fall
5 ways to finally get started on that big project this fall 5 ways to finally get started on that big project this fall Temperatures are finally cooling off and youâve been itching to launch that new project for weeks now. It rolls around in your mind from Monday through Friday, but when Saturday shows, up, your motivation is nowhere to be found.Hereâs how to push through whatâs been keeping you from taking the leap.Recognize how youâre feelingBefore you begin, you might be filled with fear - and you might think that you have to suppress it in order to get started.Quite the contrary, according to Peter Bregman, CEO of leadership coaching organization Bregman Partners. He writes in the Harvard Business Review that the fear is a sign that youâve got high standards for yourself - maybe too high - and that you may be demanding perfection from yourself and your as-yet-unfinished project while deep down, youâre afraid youâre doomed to fail.That could be enough to trigger a paralysis that will stop you before you begin.The trick is to admit youâre scared, Bregman argues.âWhen you ackno wledge that fear, youâre acknowledging that you might not have all that it takes to meet your expectations; you might not have all the tools, information, skills, etc. Admitting that, in turn, reduces your expectation of getting it perfect right off the bat. And lowering your expectation of getting it right is the key to getting it started,â Bregman writes in HBR.Donât look for perfection in the beginningDo something, anything - donât get caught up in attaining perfection just yet.Writer and illustrator Alex Mathers writes on Medium about how he begins things, demonstrating how important it is to feed off the energy you get once you do.Writing that he lets himself âcreate complete trash the first time around,â Mathers continues, âwhen Iâve spewed nonsense onto the page, I take a step back and say to myself, âOk, Iâve done something. I might as well keep going. Perhaps I can dig a gem out of these ramblingsâ¦ââYou might just feel accomplished once you break through.Start with the easier tasksWriter and former staffer in the NYC Mayorâs Office, Eliza Berman, writes in The Muse about how you should âidentify the low-hanging fruitâ when starting a difficult project.âThere are a few reasons to start with the easy stuff. First off, it gives you some notches on your belt. This feeling of forward movement, minimal as it might be, is an important psychological win. It gives you momentum, fuel for the more challenging work ahead. And second, it allows you to demonstrate progress to the projectâs stakeholders, generating faith in your ability to deliver on future phases of work,â she writes.Hold yourself accountable with âexternal deadlinesâGetting ready for another event where you will need to have started on your project might create more of a sense of urgency - and keep you connected to your mission.Lifehacker explains what setting âexternal deadlinesâ looks like.âSign up for an event, workshop, or class that forces yo u to have something prepared. It might be a writing group; it might be a startup bootcamp. If your project requires you to travel, book your plane ticket,â the publication reports.In other words, force yourself to commit by setting up an infrastructure of accountability.Reward yourself for getting work doneDonât forget to reward yourself by doing something fun after making progress. Otherwise, you might be tempted to quit if you feel like the positive affirmation that comes with completing your project is entirely out of reach.It might mean taking a break from work and spending time on something you love - connecting with friends or family, going to see music or art or live performances or just basking in the moment.However you do it, giving yourself positive associations for your accomplishments will build up a Pavlovian response that will keep you going until you reach the next benchmark.Breaking out of your shell and starting a tough project youâve been avoiding can be cha llenging at first, but ultimately very rewarding once you move forward.
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